Monday, January 28, 2013

June 2012

6/6 The first week of June we made a trip to Gatlinburg. I really thought I took more pictures and goodness where is my sign picture. I will have to look on the camera again! How could I live without my sign picture? We spent a couple of days in the park cooking out. We were very disappointed in how they have "upgraded" the little picnic area we usually go to. Since the twins we now spend most of our time there making sure the twins don't roll down a hill or get into traffic. It is more stressful now than it is usually worth. Bailey's vision makes it hard for her to maneuver around the area, and she thinks she can do just like the big kids. I swear my heart can't take the stress.




 


 


  What is the outdoors without a few army men to play with?


  Fire. Really?! I guess I would have been shocked if she really got a spark.





 6/8 Another day (well actually a couple) we went to Daddy's favorite camping store. They have a climbing wall at the front of the store, and Tyler wanted to climb it. Guess who else begged to climb it? Bailey and Wyatt! They could just see themselves danging up there. They do the same thing when they see the roller coasters at Dollywood. 
They are waiting for brother to climb in this picture. We had to make a quick exit after he climbed the wall because the twins were crying because they couldn't take their turn.
 


  Later that afternoon we took them to a place on the strip in Pigeon Forge that has kiddie rides. There were lots of tears when we left this place. Remember back to the time when your kids had a melt down when they had to leave the playground..... and times that by 2. Fun times I tell you.


  If you aren't able to see her little smile, click on the picture and it will pop up a bigger picture. It is priceless and shows you how much she has a need for speed.


  Wyatt comes off all the rides screaming 'gain, 'gain.






He also has a need for speed. Brianne not so much...




6/15 I had the bright idea that I would get the kids outside and let them play in the shaving cream. Several therapist recommended it for messy play to help the twins with their sensory issues. Ha!! I thought to myself "self it will be easy to clean and surely when they see the big kids having a good time playing with it they will join in." Ha! The big kids used ALL 4 cans of shaving cream on themselves.





Wyatt screamed because it touched him. I put some on his hands and then he wouldn't move his hands. Brother put some on him. No part of it I tell you!!




Bailey wants you to know she certainly wants no part of it. Tyler tried to put some on her, and she ran and hid on the porch. Don't tell her, but everyone could still see her.




6/16 They may not like shaving cream but they love water! Brianne still doesn't know how to swim. She is terrified of putting her head under the water. I hope I can find someone else next year (summer 2013) to teach her. The YMCA really doesn't teach them to swim.




6/18 You would think that with chocolate all over your face that some of that cookie was chewed and swallowed. Nope!! Bailey still doesn't understand how to chew and swallow her food. We have lost yet another 2 therapist. To say that Lee and I are angry over that is to put it mildly. They knew that Bailey was not a mild feeding delay case. I also know that they had to have had an idea that they might be moving. Couldn't they have at least warned us so we could make an informed decision? Especially since we have to pay for so much of her therapy out of pocket. Every time we go to a new therapist it is like starting over. Wyatt is also still in therapy and still eats some baby food. You have no idea what this does to a family. 









6/22 This month we are working on getting Wyatt to drink some of his milk out of a cup with a straw. The nice previous therapists said we must immediately get them off bottles and on cups. They also don't have to come home with us and make sure they get enough liquids and calories a day. They don't have to go to the hospital when one of them goes into renal failure due to lack of liquids. The one thing that irks me with therapy is the lack of accountability. They tell you to do all this stuff, but they don't have to worry about what happens if it fails. I think they should have to weigh the kids and also make sure they are getting enough liquids. Luckily for my 2 Lee and I are in the medical field so we understand all the concepts. I really get tired of telling them that at this point Bailey can either drink out of a bottle or get a feeding tube and getting a feeding tube is not an option for Bailey. This month we are working on Bailey holding her own bottle. I don't see Bailey not drinking her milk from a bottle in the next year. Wyatt drinking solely out of a cup is also questionable. He has low muscle tone in his mouth has tires easily. Oh and when I say milk I am talking about Boost. Thank you so ever much to Walmart because they special order Boost for us. It is much cheaper than Pediasure.





Brianne continues to love dressing them up. Bailey loves being a princess.




Poor Wyatt just doesn't know the fun I will have showing this to his future wife.



6/25 We got another new therapist with early intervention. We are like a revolving door. This time we have lucked out!! It has been the best thing EVER!! This therapist also works with the school system and will see Bailey in the school system when she ages out at 3. She is a vision therapist so it is just what Bailey needs. She introduced Bailey to the iPad on her first visit. Why has no one else ever tried the iPad with her? She really responds to therapy with it. Thanks to Maw and Grandaddy she now has her own iPad.





Bailey has these days where she absolutely shocks you. She will do this one little thing thing that is amazing for her that she may not do again for a year. I have always personally thought that it was like God letting the sun peak through the clouds on a stormy, stormy day. He knows when I am about to give up and am losing hope. An example would be on this day, June 28, when Bailey fed herself pudding and baby food, which is something she has NEVER done before. She won't do it again for months but that one time is enough to bring you to your knees.









6/30 Poor Mac has tried and tried to ship himself to another family, but they just won't let him go. He even tried to starve himself to get out of the family. Poor, poor Mac Mac.

Saturday, January 26, 2013

End of School, Awards, and Graduation, May 2012

May 19
My dad's brother and sister and their family all came over to my parent's house for a "mini" family reunion. It was nice to see everyone and the kids loved playing in the sand. 

The rare picture of my brother with the kids. Shhhh don't tell him I put it on here because he would be mad. 


Loving the sand..... Mom not so much... It is like being at the beach and trying to wash off all the sand and it never happens.
 Bailey got my brother to hold her, and she tried to stay with him the whole time he was there.



 
 Maw and Grandaddy made the boat into a sand box just for this day.

 Jacob and the kids


 The kids were really glad that Katie and Aaden were able to come play with them. I wish we lived closer so they could get together and play.


I swear if they told Maw to jump off a bridge she would ask which one and go do it. They wanted to play in the water and that is just what she let them do.


5/22 The last day of school!! Two excited kids came home this day. I made Tyler a deal at the first of the year that if he made all 100's on his Bible test that he would receive $100. Oops!! He really did it.




5/24 Guess who graduated Kindergarten? How fast the time has gone! Brianne will get to go to 1st grade ALL day the next school year.

 Brianne with her teacher Mrs. Bowman


Brianne with Mr. Todd, principle



 5/24 Tyler got an award for making all 100's in Bible. This is his teacher Mr Nolin giving him his award.


Wyatt and Bailey ended the month of May by relaxing and wearing their sibling's shoes.





































 

Monday, November 5, 2012

Sunday, October 14, 2012

Not Lost!

I know, I know. It has been a long time. I have every intention of one day catching the blog up. I want to do that not for me but for the kids. Anywho... I wanted to do a quick blog on our weekend before I forgot everything.
Thursday morning Bailey went to the feeding clinic. This would be the clinic that everyone asks if we are seeing when I mention Bailey doesn't eat and the lack of help we have received. The clinic that sees Bailey every 6 months. Yeah right! They can really help us when we only see them 2x a year. Last time they recommended we feed her oatmeal and transition her to a "sippy" type cup. Well it didn't take but a few days and I knew the oatmeal was a no go. In order to drink out of a cup you have to have the strength and the desire to do this. They knew I was frustrated from the last visit so this time they listened to what we needed. I didn't need false hope and bull crap. I haven't met one person that knows what to really do for Bailey. She doesn't understand how to chew and swallow, and I believe she is not cognitively at the level where you can teach her. I wanted them to give me ideas on something different to feed her. She also hasn't gained any weight. I lay that one at their feet. They are the ones that said to stop adding duocal to her food and milk. Now they want her to gain weight. Sigh....
So after discussing our options we will start blending table food. This will help with calories also. Currently she only gets about 850-900 calories a day. They want her to get 1300. You probably wonder why we didn't do this before. Well, we did try a few things before (spinach, sweet potato, and chicken), and she hated it. Now I haven't done it because.... well frankly it makes me feel like we are giving up on her....  giving up on her ever eating solid food. I really don't know why I feel like this. I am trying to get over this feeling. Baby food isn't enough calories so we must go to the next step. So Bailey has had a weekend packed full of firsts. She has been a real trooper. She is hesitant with new things, but she hasn't totally refused  anything. Here is a list of things she ate this weekend:
Friday: shrimp al a creme from the Cajun restaurant
Saturday: pancakes with syrup, brownie bites, and macaroni and cheese with chicken fingers
Sunday: glazed donut, bean chowder, and beef stew with potatoes and carrots

I pray that one day this will all just feel like a horrible dream. I pray she will learn to eat and that we are making the right choices.

Sunday, June 10, 2012

Mother's Day Weekend

Mother's Day weekend started off with a little cleaning. I had an epiphany that weekend. I decided that I needed help around the house, and I would start bribing paying the big kids for doing extra chores around the house. I am only going to pay them if they do what I ask without having an attitude and they can't make the "I don't want to do that" face. I don't like that face. Wyatt and Bailey like to help "dust" with Brianne. Excuse our white t shirts. They are in their sick attire. We have learned that all illnesses end in vomit with them. 

Wyatt helping cook. He is responsible for taking out all the ingredients from the refrigerator.
Sunday afternoon Lee and Brianne cooked breakfast for dinner as my Mother's Day meal. Brianne invited Wyatt and Bailey to help her.
They were very serious "stirring" cooks. Poor Tyler had a bunch of homework so we were busy at the table doing it.
Sometimes you just have to dress up as a princess on Mother's Day. She is my sweet, sweet angel.

Sunday, May 27, 2012

Biting Update

Did I mention the biting is going much better? They rarely bite each other or the big kids. Now where do you think the bite mark in this picture came from? Wyatt bit himself. Why would he do this? Craziness!! He has not done it again.

Last Soccer Game, May 7

Brianne had her last soccer game. I am very surprised how smoothly it all went for us. She didn't miss one game! I did have to get Mr. Mary to help a few afternoons with the babies. I was very doubtful that we would manage to pull it off.

Prayer before the game
I am so very thankful we can take our children to a Christian school. I pray that Bailey will catch up so she can go also.  



She received her metal. She was so proud of it. How many athletes do you know that could pull off the "bow look" on the field?
I swear I am gonna put a book on her head to slow down how tall she is getting. Look at her height compared to the others!!